If you're a Christian single over 35 struggling to find your godly spouse and finally settle down, please know this: Your lack of success is NOT because you are not praying ...

... or because you're not getting hands laid on your head and ...

... prophesied over by “anointed” ministers and prophets...

... or because you're not spending enough time online at dating sites, whether Christian or secular.

No. The marital breakthrough you crave is being held up in the spirit realm because of something much more simple... and much easier to solve.

IF you're willing to listen.

So here is Big Question #1: Do you want to waste more years (and your hard-earned money) chasing after people to pray or prophesy over you, hoping for a miracle?

Or are you finally ready to learn the first simple step to overcoming rejection, and claiming your godly spouse, even if you’ve already been dumped, rejected and forsaken?

If your answer is Yes, then let's get started on the road that will change your life forever...



From: Elisha Goodman                                                                                         
Calvary greetings … 

Christian singles (even those well past their prime) are still getting married today, against all odds… in spite of plentiful supply of younger, slimmer and even better-looking competition.

After wasting years running from pillar to post, they finally realized that they could easily overcome past rejection…

Because ...

They finally found a biblical way to cancel the recurring setback of being dumped for younger competitors… over and over again.

Here’s the discovery: There is a godly spouse, custom-made and waiting for you. Right now he or she may be hiding in plain sight.

When you find a way to PRAY and release that godly spouse to locate you, and recognize that you’re the one, then begins the journey that will eventually lead to the wedding altar and beyond.

The kind of prayer I’m speaking about comes with great side benefits.

And unintended consequences too.

For instance --

Once you begin to pray like I’m going to show you shortly, your eyes will be opened (in the spirit) to "see" those counterfeits and time wasters that the devil sometimes sends to people in order to confuse them and divert their marital destiny.

[Note: Getting married to the wrong or counterfeit spouse is one of the biggest problems facing newly-married or soon-to-be-married couples today].

That will not be your portion… the moment you realize that there are specific prayers that can help you locate and possess your God-ordained marriage partner, sometimes in as little as 6 months.

It really can be that simple.

        The prayers are not hiding (you find them in scripture).

        Now praying your way into breakthroughs (of any kind) is not a secret anymore. (There are tons of websites and ministries giving away entire books, audiotapes and CDs for free)...

         ... And once you realize the need to pray seriously for your godly spouse, finding hundreds of prayers (and ministries that will happily accept your prayer requests) is flat-out easy: Just do a Google search!

So why isn’t every (prayerful) Christian single married?

Here’s why: When it comes to prayer, where most believers get stuck …

                                        … is in knowing what (and what NOT) to pray.

 Especially in the area of marriage and relationships, knowing what NOT to pray is as valuable as knowing what to pray.

There is something the Bible calls “praying amiss.” – James 4:3

Meaning praying off-target, with the wrong motives, and even the wrong prayers.

Let’s get something straight:

The Bible says:

“He that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour of the Lord…”
 (Proverbs 18: 22)

So it is scriptural to get married.

And praying on target will get you there faster than anything you can ever imagine...

         ... assuming you know what kind of prayers to pray.

In the manual of the prayer eagles, this has to be the #1 (and mostly ignored) rule …


Prayer Eagles’ Rule #1:
Get a Prayer Plan that works

There are prayers and there are prayers. Some work. Some don’t. Recently I just googled the word prayer and 330 million results came up in 0.37 seconds.

330,000,000 web pages talking about prayer!


With so much information online, finding the prayer that might work for you, in your peculiar situation, can quickly seem like searching for the proverbial needle in a haystack.

There are entire websites with thousands of prayer points (not to mention books) that you can use.

Only problem is: You cannot tell whether they work at all.

OR whether they will work in your situation… for you.

Many years ago, when the LORD began to teach me the mystery of prayer that works, He made sure that I’ll remember to follow this golden rule:

Never give to others what you
have not tried yourself!

Do you realize what that means?

Let me spell it out for you –

I have personally used MOST of the prayers we send out daily. I have walked in your shoes, to say the least. I too had to pray in order to get married, among other things.

And I kept notes.

The prayers I teach today have been baked into my spirit… right from the time I was in the furnace of affliction. You should see the mistakes I used to make.

But over the years the Holy Spirit has taught me what prayer is suitable for which situation.

That’s why you see so many testimonies on our websites about specific prayers the LORD has used to move mountains and crush the goliaths that had been boasting against the marital destiny of His people.

Praise the LORD.

The problem many believers who are looking to get married face today can be summed up in just two words:





Thousands of emails land in my inbox each month.

Often with heartbreaking stories like this:


3 Times Rejected

Dear Elisha, 

I have been rejected 3x by men who gave me the hope that they will marry me but the end was rejection.

The first man travel to USA and never bothered to picked my calls again with his reason as he is there with a white lady.

The second man also without any reason introduced me to another lady that am his secretary and that I only help him when he

needs something to be type or done for him. I did not question him because the lady was with us at a church progamme but when I confronted him later he said that is his new girl he is going to marry and that was the end of the relationship.

The third man whom I taught was restoring the happiness back broke up sadly with me on my sick bed simply because

he wanted to introduce me to his cousin and I was sick and couldn't be there that day. He refuse to even listen or visit me and said it is over.

God willingly I was able to overcome the pain. Two years ago a guy in my sister church who has been my friend for many years

came to visit me and whispered in my ears he wants to marry me. Things were not easy for to accept due to the previous experiences 

I had and said to him to let me Pray over it for sometime. I later accepted him and last year November we plan to get married but the unfortunate happy again. We discussed our plans with both families and then to our pastor. From that day I cannot even explain what

really is the problem whether is from the pastor or our families, it is only God who can explain to us. Everything has been disorganized

again and now when I even talk about marriage what my man tells me is he does not have money to do it. I am really confused and don't know what to do. Pls help me as am not growing younger.  

-   - Name withheld to protect identity


Now her problem here is NOT as complex as it seems on the surface.

This one is relatively easy to solve.

Actually it took less than a minute to uncover the root of her problems. What she is seeing are just symptoms … of a deeply-rooted spiritual problem (Hint: this type of problem never goes away on its own).

Here's another:


"I'm Emotionally Hurt"

"Today I feel the Lord is not hearing me. My boyfriend recently decided to go on a break and since this has been eating me up.

I’ve been trying to be patient and wait when his break is ending but now I feel i should give up. The problem is I dont know how.

I am emotionally hurt even though I pray at midnight every night for God to consume the pain. During the day I cant concentrate on my work. I pray daily that God will make me forget about what is happening.

- Name Withheld


But I also receive another kind of email. Lots of them.

About amazing victories and breakthroughs.

Like this one - posted on the blog in response to a sister's desperate cry for help.

She writes:


Married In 4 Months

Dear Sister L,

Do not be discouraged. Continue praying to destroy all the evil foundation in your background.

I was there and I prayed for my divine spouse and God heard my prayers. He will do for you too.  I got married in 2012 December after joining singles in April 2012.

 In August i met my divine husband and he proposed to marry me. I was so afraid for I did not know the person. I went on with my prayers and I thanked the Lord. Our courtship was very short because in August 2012 I met him and in December 22, 2012 was our church wedding (4 months).

We are now happily married and God has blessed us with a baby girl who has now turned one year. What a blessing.

God will give you your divine spouse. Let's pray and trust Him as we give Him thanks for your divine husband.

- Hellen


If you remember the case study of that sister who got married a while ago…

… where I revealed the exact email sequence … the back and forth emails … PLUS the prayers we recommended for her while she was in our prayer coaching program.

She came from a family where nobody gets married (or stays married).

But as her last email showed, she eventually got married within the year… after 20 years of rejection, shame and discouragement.

PROOF that the Lord still answers this type of prayers… when done right.

TODAY, no one can afford to make any mistake in choosing their life partner.

If that is the case, then you’re ready for:

Question #2:
Can you really learn how to do this,
quickly and easily?


I mean, can you learn to pray for yourself and expect God to answer you... like Hellen here?

The simple answer: Yes, you can.

Take a glance at the wall of testimonies to the right… from believers just like you (as well as people in every kind of dire situation imaginable).

Prayer coaching offered on this website has helped them overcome the most stubborn… hard to crack… generational… and horrible barriers to marriage you’ve ever seen…

… and, through this step-by-step weekly prayer program…

… swept away ancient wall blocking their marriage… and transformed them into prayer eagles finally able to pray their way to every other conceivable breakthrough, whether in their finances, health or marriage.


Let me ask you a rather blunt question:
Are you teachable?

You may require some level of spiritual education, especially in the area of prayer.

You may even have to un-learn some things they taught you about prayer.

Are you humble enough to follow a few simple (biblical) instructions from someone you’ll probably never meet in real life?

Did you know there is a prayer for every conceivable situation you’ll ever face (including the issue of your godly spouse?)

Did you know that there is something about prayer that the most powerful prophets and ministers of the gospel wish you knew about…

… but will never, ever tell you to your face!

Now you can find out.

Especially in the area of your marital destiny.

We offer 2 ways for you to do this:

Option #1:

A few months ago we set up a semi-social network-like site for Christian singles who are really interested in praying to find their godly spouse. And eventually getting married.

They want to avoid falling into the trap of counterfeits that will just make matters worse.

They want to break the backbone of marital delay so they can meet their God-ordained partner sooner, rather than later.

Note: The site is NOT for people who are already married.

The prayers are divided into 3 phases.

Phase 1
            The first phase is a 21-day prayer. This phase is open to all who sign up either for a FREE or PREMIUM membership on the site www.spousewell.com. We used a tiny fraction of these prayers years ago and the results were posted on our websites for all to see.

Phase 2 / 3
           Weekly prayer begins. Once a PREMIUM member finds an interested partner, or receives/gives a marriage proposal, we move the two into a secure, confidential webpage where you are given specific prayers to help you determine whether the person is really God's will for your life.

This is a most crucial step on journey of your marital destiny.

For the first time, I share the prayers/scriptures that I personally used when I wanted to get married (in Phase 3 of the program).

This sort of prayers MUST be used only under close supervision, and so our Prayer Advisors are on hand to give guidance through those 3 days. Within those 3 days we tell you the meaning of what you see in your dreams.

And what to do about those dreams.

It is because I cannot do this to a whole lot of people that we're restricting this to ONLY those who have made it to Phase 3 - the confidential partners' page.

This the nugget of the coaching program on this site … a major highlight of the Singles-only site.

Click Here to Join the Site

For those who are not comfortable joining the spousewell site (i.e. they do not want their photograph and other personal information on any website at all) there is yet a second option.

Option #2:

This is for those who still wish to pray through our sequence of prayers, without having to join the singles site described in Option #1.

If you are not comfortable with a dating-style site, where you have to post your photograph, plus other personal information…

… then this one is for you.

Once you sign up to the program, all you need to do is fill out a simple form with your email address and first name … and we’ll do the rest.

First we’ll send you 4 of our foundation prayer manuals, to get you immersed in biblical principles that form the bedrock of all our prayers.

After that, every week for 10 weeks you will receive 1 lesson per week. The lesson manual will explain in great detail the prayers you are about to pray for the week, why you are praying them, and (this is crucial) how to pray them effectively for fastest possible results.

Click Here to Join

Many believers who “stumble” on our websites have already spent at least a decade on that long winding road leading to nowhere…

… all in a frantic effort to find their godly spouse and finally settle down.

If you have read this far, know that you are not here by accident.

The LORD brought you here to change your story. And change it fast.

This is how you begin the long-awaited walk to your wedding altar.

Know this: you could be just a few prayer bullets away from your glorious wedding.

Please don’t let this opportunity slip away.

Be An Overcomer





With this new prayer sequence, finding your godly spouse has never been easier -- and faster...

Finally Married –
After 27 Years!

“I got married to a man of God also using prayer materials for singles. The same man of God paid lobola for me and went to settle in marriage with another woman for 27 years. From the beginning they were not at all happy up till the time they separated. We are now husband and wife as of the 10th January 2013. I need to thank the Lord for sending us someone like Elisha Goodman.”

- Mashigo, South Africa


"I didn't have to go around looking for a man"

“I had a chance of receiving the bullet point from    your website when a friend of mine directed me to Google. 

      I did so indeed I found amazing secrets that I did not know since I have accepted the Lord as my personal Saviour and Lord up to date.

     To summarize everything, my Father answered my prayers through the ‘19 prayer points to release God - ordained partner from evil spiritual cage’.

     I am presently engaged to a God-fearing, handsome man and we are getting married in October this year.

Through your website I was transformed
...  I said my ordained husband will locate me and he did.

     It was a turnaround strategy for me not to go around looking for a man.

 God escorted him to me. Thank God for your website. May God richly lift you up and    bless you further. Thanks.”

-      --   Lisebo M,  South Africa


"We met only 3 months ago and now we're married!"

“I got your email and started using the prayers to get married and thanks be to God I am married now. I started using the prayers about a year and a half ago. Me and my husband met about three months ago and now we are married. Thank God …”

-- Sis. San, USA


"My wedding was glorious"

  “I joined your site in July 2011 but never became serious with it until October and upon applying your teachings/guidance I received my breakthrough in November.

  I was praying about a divine partner since all men that I was meeting were
 actually wrong coz either they were married or not born again or just not

  Upon applying your teachings by praying at the midnight hour coupled with Esther fasting am happy to say that this changed me in a more positive way coz I now looked younger than my age of 31.

  I later decided to give a prophetic offering labelled "Thanksgiving for prophetic marriage".  This was on 13th November 2011 and that very day I met a brother who is now my husband.

  He was teasing me later saying he was wondering who is this lady in church who was praying like a wounded lion and this made him admire me and that was after he had prayed for 40 nights vigil for a life partner.

  We got married on 13th April 2012 exactly 6 months after our meeting. My
 wedding was very glorious.  I had written to you in the same November
 since I thought it was taking long for God to answer me not knowing I was at  the edge of my breakthroughs.”

  Praise the Lord.
 - Sis. HF, Kenya


"At 47 years of age, God did the unexpected for me!"

"My sister told me of this website and about you but I was very very reluctant to join but she kept pressurising me. Well I decided to go to your website and when I read the testimonies, I decided to buy your books and I joined the August prayer academy. To cut the story short, God did the unexpected for me.

I am a 47-year-old that has been praying to have a settled home with my own husband.  I have known this man for 3yrs and he was not willing to settle down but I kept saying God’s Will in my life will surely come to pass.

After the Prayer Academy, He suddenly came to say I should get ready for marriage. We got wedded on December 18th and also God miraculously provided the money for the wedding. To God be the glory."

-- Sis. Esthy, U.K.


"My Tears Have Been Turned to Joy!"

“Dear Elisha,

I give all the glory and honour to God . Remember me when l wrote to u and told you how l needed a partner in my life and a God fearing one and l was a single mum in a new country. No job, tears were my food day and night.

Then surprisingly my uncle in Uganda sent me your website and at first l didn’t understand what it was all about though I’ve been a believer. So l called him and he explained and l started reading your mails and praying because l don’t have a job as of yet but God is so amazing.

l met this brother from the church where we go to and we dated for a year and guess what? We got married on 2nd October 2011. I always recited this bullet prayer  that says BLOOD OF THE LAMB WIPE OFF ALL HANDWRITING OF HATRED AND REJECTION FROM  MY LIFE AND MY TESTIMONIES WILL SURPRISE MY FRIENDS AND SHOCK MY ENEMIES, God has been so good to me my tears have been turned into joy. To God be the glory!

- Sis. Justine, Sweden


"God Has Done Wonders in My Life"

“Dear Elisha,
God has done wonders in my life. I have been in a relationship with my partner for 9 yrs. We have two beautiful kids together. My partner did not have any will to commit to us. After changed the way I pray and started to claim back my relationship and the happiness I had with my man, the devil had no chance.

On the 7th July 2011 I started praying specifically for marriage and the protection of God. On the 22nd July 2011 he proposed. On the 06th August 2011 we got married and it was a happy day for me and my family. Thank you, God. Praise be to the Father. He is a miracle worker.”

-- Karabo, South Africa


"God Has Settled My Case Too!"

At last, God has settled my case too. I joined the prayer Academy early last year, asking God to change my situation of “promise and fail” in marriage issues and to disgrace the doctors report that I can’t have a child except through assisted pregnancy due to one closed tube.

But to God be the glory today the story is different, because I just wedded July *last month* and I am  pregnant with my first baby at 39 years old without any medical assistance. I aam so glad we have an awesome God who hears and answers prayers! PRAISE THE LORD.”

-- Sister Delia, Italy


"Our Wedding Just Happened!"

“Dear Elisha,
Praise the Lord, a friend sent me reports from your site. I thank God that when I started with your prayers, I had been praying for a spouse for many years and people were talking behind my back including my family that I was overdue and desperate.

Actually, I cried out to God in despair feeling so lost and alone but after I came across your site and decided to try it out, I harvested result immediately. I went into 2 Esther fasts on top of the normal fast, and at the 3rd Esther fast, I met my husband, a God fearing man just as I had been praying for.

My husband had also been praying for a spouse. I praise the good Lord for the wonderful revelations. We just had our wedding. May God continue to shine His favour on you as you direct other lost people out there.”
- Henrietta


 "Married - After 2 Months of Prayers!"

“Dear Elisha,
 friend introduced me to this website early 2010, which you send daily prayers and testimonies to my mail. We have being praying believing God for my niece to meet her life partner for over 4 years.

I used the prophetic prayer axe for only 2 months and the lord sent her ministering angel to bring her life partner to her last December and they married last month May 2011. Glory be to God and may God continue to use you in our generation.

- Shallum


   "Husband At 42 !"

“Dear Elisha,
I praise the Lord for your service. I printed some prayer points from your website and sent them to my friend with whom we had praying together since 2003 for a husband. After applying those prayers, The Lord gave her a husband at the age of 42 last year. To God be the glory. We are now seeking prayers for a baby. This site has been a blessing to many. God bless you a billion times.”

Kunywana Robina, Uganda.


   "Husband Without Struggle"

"I bless the name of the Lord who wiped away all my tears and has restored happiness and laughter in my life.

Though I am a member of ministry that pray targeted prayers like the ones on your site, I also join in the closing out of the year and starting a new year programme you send freely for the past three years now ...

...and God has opened several doors that were locked by the enemies to me the first one being that I got a job with an oil servicing company.

The second - another job with International company where I receive my salary in dollars here in Nigeria.

The third testimony being my wedding to my divine husband on the 20th of March 2011. In fact I call it divine connection where you don’t struggle and God just gives you a husband.

Praise the Lord. I just want to encourage others to keep praying at midnight hour and expect God to do exceedingly abundantly above all you ever ask or imagine."

- Constance, Nigeria